I'm listening at Michael Jackson song "Man in the mirror".  Have you heard the lyrics?

The chorus says: "That's why I want you to know
I'm starting with the man in the mirror
I'm asking him to change his ways
And no message could've been any clearer
If they wanna make the world a better place
Take a look at yourself and then make a change"

Considering Michael's life, this song could express his real thoughts, desires and feelings.  This song is a gift to the world.

It is very easy to demand others to change. We can see their mistakes and easily judge what they have to do and that they are doing wrong. But is not that easy to see our mistakes and do what we have to do to make it right.

Start with the man in the mirror to make a change. Be lovely, kind, friendly, that will encourage others to follow your steps.

God bless you!